You know that saying: "Love is in the air"? It actually is to be honest. Not just in the romantic season Spring itself, but in general. You know that saying: "Breakups are hard"? Yes, they really are. Not just for the body, but for the soul as well. On this page you'll learn the love life and advice about it for autistic people.

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Let's start with the breakups first, in which case is the bad sign of relationships. For those with autism in my experience, breakups were actual nightmares in truth. Sometimes thinking it could happen or won't happen, but yet it happens. But breakups in everyone's point of view are different. Like for example if a couple was only together for a week and didn't really care about their relationship, they most likely wouldn't have cared if they broke up. But it goes differently to a long-term couple actually since they built up so many emotions together over time.

 

But there is one thing you can't escape from after a breakup for autistic people: crying. It's normal to cry over a breakup. I remember all the times I did. The reason why I say crying is because usually autistic people are sensitive that they would cry. Give that person comfort though even though if they're the ones that chose to breakup with the other person. Even the ones who choose this decision actually have a hard time with what happened. Just make sure that they're doing okay as healthy people.

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Now let's get to the happy stuff. Relationships and crushes are a big step for autistic people always. Autistic people will sometimes be shy, talk incorrectly in a way that they talk by accident, handle the date and/or relationship pretty well, runaway to get away from it all, and etc.

 

I'm not getting into the dirty stuff. I'm sorry I'm not using the word for it either. Not on this blog, because this blog is meant kept clean. Online dating might not always be a good idea for autistic people, because of strangers online and plus when met in public after online they might not seem they way they are. It's usually best to stick with people outside of the media and internet. 

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First time for everything they say. It's so true. First date, first dance, first hug, and first kiss. You can't say that isn't cute and sweet. But that does make autistic people nervous and they might be triggered to mess up, but not in a way triggered like they're mad. They need reassurance, encouragement, and (but not too much) high hope to keep the scenes going in a good path of direction. I member all those events and feelings, yet they turned out well in the end. I just believed in myself. That's my greatest advice I can give for this topic. 

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Love is so beautiful. Autistic people deserve that love since they're people too. They actually do know how it feels and what it's like, even if they never had a relationship before. Some people can just feel things in the environment and feelings of others to know that experience.

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Just to let everyone know love is here with all of us not just for autistic people, but in general. So embrace it fully and hold onto it forever or as long as you can. Because you are loved.